If Nothing (forthcoming Jan. 2025)

If Nothing is an honest reckoning with the grip of addiction, the expectations of masculinity, and the tug of family.  

When mid-life collides with the precariousness of alcoholism, the vulnerability of opening oneself to a second coming-of-age becomes an ecstatic cry in poems that confront pain and the need for forgiveness. An unvarnished and direct accounting of the journey to sobriety, of struggles with mental health, and with the challenges of longing and loss, If Nothing traverses the sting of shame, the earnestness of joy, and the desire for absolution.

House of Water

Alice James Books, October 2016

This debut highlights fatherhood at its peak as it juggles the uncertainty and deeper meaning of everyday life. The hesitant, yet curious voice of the poems are deeply entrenched in the familial, yet also refreshingly open about the crush one feels when their ideals crash down. How does one build a life, only to be redirected and start anew?


"Deeply felt and beautifully built, the poems in Matthew Nienow's long-awaited debut shimmer with hard-won grace. . . House of Water is a staggering book that marks the arrival of an important voice in American poetry."

—Eduardo C. Corral


“Matthew Nienow understands the spell-like power of calling things by their ancient, actual names: nubbins and sapwood, preachers and riving knives, lapstrake and bulwarks and sponsons. House of Water is a marvelous debut, full of love songs to work, to struggle, and to all that is plumb, and level, and true.” 

 —Patrick Phillips



“Nienow’s introspective sophomore collection (after House of Water) explores emptiness, desire, and the search for meaning… Unflinching and tender, this volume affirms Nienow’s distinctive poetic gifts.”

— Publishers Weekly Starred Review

"Matthew Nienow shows us in If Nothing that he is a poet of birth, of making and making anew. He writes, 'All the second chances, what did they teach me, if not to dream more wildly toward a kingdom in which the king was not so cruel?' and then he shows us the stutter step restarting of love after malice, tenderness after neglect. This is powerful medicine, salve for earnest souls in an era of ethical infantilization. There is grace here, real grace made wise by having known real grief; If Nothing is a lasting book."
—Kaveh Akbar

"'Love is showing up so fully it hurts,' Matthew Nienow writes, and indeed he shows up here in full. These are poems of startling vulnerability, poems of addiction and despair and the wake they carve through a marriage, through fatherhood, through a self. But the thing about a wake is that the water comes back together, however changed. If Nothing doesn’t bare loss gratuitously. No, it sees—it sings—loss through to its many lessons. This book makes work of loss, and anyone who reads this poet will come to recognize that work and love go hand in hand."
—Corey Van Landingham

"'I walked straight into the fire and took my place amongst the ash,' writes Matthew Nienow. The result is If Nothing, a bracing collection that digs into the ashes of addiction, marriage, and fatherhood to discover what the tree knows under the carpenter’s chisel, that loss can also be abundance."
—Tomás Q. Morin

"'If you can live with loss, the soul grows bright,' Matthew Nienow writes in this clear-eyed and resonant book. His voice never wavers. Addiction and mental health and shame are rendered in searingly alive language. His vulnerability is radical listening—to masculinity, to loneliness, to family, to betrayal. In these deftly crafted poems, loss shines bright, but grace shines brighter."
—Eduardo C. Corral


Poems from If Nothing have appeared or are forthcoming in:

32 Poems, Alaska Quarterly Review, Beloit Poetry Journal, Bennington Review, Copper Nickel, the Cortland Review, Diode, Georgia Review, Gulf Coast, Missouri Review, New England Review, North American Review, Only Poems, Ploughshares, Sewanee Review, Southern Humanities Review, Tupelo Quarterly, Waxwing, Wildness, and Willow Springs, and have been featured on NPR/Spokane Public Radio and the Lay Me Down podcast.