Tonight we had the good fortune of seeing The Ericksons here in Seattle.  It was River’s first show and the boy slept straight through it. Of course, the striking harmonies and subtle guitar lulled me something sweet as well, and if I hadn’t been so hooked by the lyrics, I could have been carried off to the best kind of sleep too.

It was nice to be out in the community with our boy knowing that our life continues and we get to bring him along for the ride. Too many parents, it seems, stop everything for their kids. I don’t think that is a good thing for parent or child. Let the kid be an important part of the crowd, give them what they need, love them tirelessly, but don’t (and I hate to sound preachy) let the world revolve around them.

Since our early days Elle and I have sought out a good story and have done our best to live it well. There are new surprises, unexpected passions and challenges, but those just sharpen the flavors. I think we’ll be doing River the best kind of favor by bringing him into that story without stopping the flow.

So tomorrow night we’ll be out for his second-ever show featuring our good friend Pete in his band Jayber Crow. If you haven’t already, check them out as well as The Ericksons. They’re both amazing groups and seeing them play makes ours, and River’s, story better.